Showing posts with label someone i love having a golden moment in the middle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label someone i love having a golden moment in the middle. Show all posts

19 December 2009

he passed!!!!

after one Masters in Social Work completed, then 3,000 supervised clinical hours over two years working, many many nights studying at the library, several large boring textbooks read, various podcasts listened to, a bunch of practice tests taken, and a whole lot of prayers offered

THOMAS ROBERTSON PASSED HIS CLINICAL LICENSE EXAM ON HIS VERY FIRST TRY WITH FLYING COLORS THIS MORNING!!!!


we hardly told a soul he was taking it because we had heard horror stories of people taking it nine times...etc. before passing. it is a beast and he CONQUERED it no problem! :)

the kids and i tried to keep ourselves occupied this morning. we made him cookies and a "we are proud of you" sign because we would have been no matter what and then he called with the great news and so i knew i had an hour until he would be home from honolulu.

i cried a few happy tears then we got all dressed up, ordered pizza, made juice and got the table set, straightened up the house, cranked up the upstanding youth tunes and got ready for "daddy's party"!


ambrose practiced saying, "GOOD JOB DADDY!" with large amounts of enthusiasm over and over while asher and i kept watch for his arrival.


that is one relieved man.

i think we will all sleep well tonight for sure. with this license comes a big promotion at work that he has already been promised, better pay, more doors opening for him professionally, and the end of a very hard year for our family.


life will never be "practically perfect in every way" but this is where the clouds part for us and i couldn't be more thrilled for my smart, capable husband and our happy little family.

thanks to all of you loved ones for cheering us on this year. it hasn't been an easy one and in some ways it has been the best year ever (that seems strange to say, but true.)

HOORAY!!!!!!!!

08 July 2009

diana in the middle


i am on vacation and so you would think i would blog about that but lately i have been thinking about my dear bff diana donna-kaye moore palmer. but mostly she's just ana. or as martin has taken to calling her "yan." and that is her up top by the way. isnt she lovely?

it's kind of funny that i have been thinking of my best of the best so much lately because a) we havent seen each other in over two years, b) we rarely talk on the phone because we kinda hate it, c) we sort of email but one of us (usually, ahem, her...cough cough) gets busy and doesnt email back for a while (but i share blame in this too), and d) why now? i have done these "so-and-so in the middle" blog posts before but never on diana because there is almost too much to say.

and maybe it's that i am so close and yet so far away right now... being on the mainland but still being so far from boise where she currently resides or utah where she will soon relocate to.

but mostly i feel lucky that i, along with all her other dedicated fans, get to see a little piece of her soul at least once a week, if not more lately, through her photography blog. i hope that she doesnt mind me posting images of hers on here, because they are my inspiration for life sometimes. they are so bright and clean and happy.


i think it must be over a year ago now that she told me she wanted to try and start a photography business even though she felt she didnt know much about it and even though the economy wasnt doing too well...etc. and she was good. she definitely had a knack for it. we would see her shoots and feel proud of her. she would encourage us to start up a little business too and called thomas her mentor or something flattering like that....etc. and NOW... well, now, me and thomas stare at her images with our mouths hanging open, trying to figure out how she does it. how are the faces so bright and clear? how does she get children to participate and looks so natural? how is everything she does pure gold?



ok, ok, i really am having a hard time choosing images here since they are all perfect and really, since i didnt ask her permission first... i better stop, but head over to her website or blog for more.

and this is really not an advertisement for yan photography (although if you want to book with her that is more than fine with me and a smart move on your part-hehe) but more of a declaration from me that i am so very proud of my beautiful, supportive, kind, loving, Christlike, and uplifting best friend diana. i could go on and on.

but let me just say that having friends is great, but ever since i met diana i have a new standard for friendship and she set it. her and martin feel like family to us. their children feel like my nieces or somethihng (although i do claim part ownership on myra since i taped her birth!). there is nothing forced or competitive about our friendship- it is natural. her friendship always comes when i need it the most- through sweet and honest emails, random texts and phone conversations, and just the knowledge that if we ever need each other we will be there and when we need a friend we have one.

her website says, "you are beautiful" and i think people can look and feel beautiful through her photos because of who she is. any interaction i have with diana leaves me feeling special and uplifted (even if we talk about things in our lives that are disappointing or sad) and i hope to be that kind of friend to others too. thanks for teaching me that ana.

thanks for reading this little love note - hope it finds you all content and well. xoxo

26 February 2009

jackson in the middle


sometimes my nephew jackson is one of my favorite people in the whole wide world (but i should warn you that i say this about all of my family members at various times).

from a young age he has cracked me up and caught me off guard with the unexpected things he says. he is a very thoughtful, random, musical/rhyming, clever boy.

anyway, today my sister brittany put something that he did and said on her blog that made jackson my favorite person of the day by a landslide- what a good, giving, and funny boy!

oh, and if you have a minute, you really should browse his very own awesome blog he asked for for christmas- you WONT be disappointed- it's all in the name: lego greene

04 January 2009

i really like: my honey, recently 29


today thomas turned 29... and as he put his chubby arm around me and rested his soft cheek against mine i just wanted him to stay 29 forever... :) jk, this is not a repeat of yesterdays post (and thomas' arms are most certainly not chubby), but a celebration of the man i love most!

thomas is a man of many talents. if there is ever a good looking picture on this blog, he most likely took it. he plays the drums in a band, he plays a lot of other instruments by ear, he does dishes for me every night, he gets up with ambrose bright and early every morning so my pregnant body can get more rest, he genuinely prefers family time over any other recreation, he organizes spaces in our house before i can ever get to them, he works really hard with some people who are generally really hard to work with, he schedules time out of his work day if i ever have an appointment or pressing engagement, he is our sons best buddy, he is romantic, he is thoughtful and patient, he is hilarious (in a subtle way... you'll never catch him trying desperately to get attention), he is modest, he is brave, he is hot, he is genuine, he is knowledgeable, he is curious and a life-long learner, he is my mate and my babys daddy.

i could go on and on, but i'll just tell him in person and spare him any more public embarrassment. :)

i would never encourage a young, 19 year old girl who is far away from home to seek out the nearest 24 year old drummer and get engaged a little less than 4 weeks later because for that to work out.... well, it doesnt seem likely. but that is our story. we met and it was obvious. he never even asked me to marry him. we were sitting on my balcony one night... having another late night that could go on forever laughing and talking (undoubtedly kissing... im sure) and looking at the ocean and in a sweet whisper he told me he wanted to marry me. i felt so calm and sure as i kept looking at the water and i nodded my head and said, "yeah."

it just made sense and it scares me to think of where i would be if i had let the fact that i was so young, or that we hadnt known each other that long get in the way of what i really felt: and that was that he was the man i wanted and should marry.

i love you thomas, you are my best friend and our life is so beautiful. thank you. happy birthday t-rob. :)

17 December 2008

all the cool recipe book people in the middle

i havent done one of my "in the middle" highlights in a while so perhaps i can catch up by highlighting all the cookbook people! this is from the first couple of pages of the cookbook- enjoy the preview!

Hey! You made the cut- congratulations! ☺
So, I wanted to write a little about each contributor for those who are curious who they are sharing a recipe book with. I couldn’t think of any good way to do this other than a most self-centered way and that is by saying how everyone is connected to me. So, I hope that you will all see this as a declaration of my admiration and appreciation for our association and not just a chance for me to talk about myself some more. ☺ Also, I went ahead and included the maiden name of some of the contributors if I thought that some people in the book would only know them from their past life before marriage. So, without further delay, here’s who’s who in order of when I received their recipes! Feel free to refer to this anytime you are cooking a great recipe and would like to know who it is from.

Rachel Whetten (Salem, Oregon):
is a mother of two boys with another baby on the way. Her husband is one of Thomas’ best friends from the growing up years and she has always impressed me with her ability to make me feel as though we have been friends for a long time even though we only get to see each other about once a year.

Natalie (Hawkins) Buck (Bakersfield, California):
is the first born in my family and is a mother to three funny, smart and active children. She is the nice one out of us four girls and the one I can always count on to be efficient, supportive, and to make me feel good about whatever I am doing. Natalie was always a second mother to me growing up and I still think of her that way sometimes.

Taylor Beebe (Laie, Hawaii):
is the closest thing to a real life chef that this recipe book can claim. In any time of need since I have lived in Hawaii, Taylor has been there to take over my kitchen with mouth watering smells, and restaurant quality results.

Meg Thomander (Hauula, Hawaii):
Since I have known Meg, I have never seen her doing anything halfway or mediocre. She is not only extremely creative, but she has the skill to carry her ideas out perfectly. She has a business with her husband making really hip and totally affordable handbags and is a new mother to a sweet baby girl.

Megan (Bayha) Swanson (New York City, New York):
is a talented actress and dancer and has been a dear friend of mine since kindergarten. She just finished a couple nation-wide theater company tours and now is auditioning, working, and living in New York City with her husband (and high school sweetheart) who is also very creative and talented and is a grad student.

Morgan Mecomber (Bowling Green, Kentucky):
is also a dear friend of mine from the days when we were both total and complete drama nerds. We were both sure that either our: acting, dancing, singing or just personalities in general would make us famous someday. Well, hers actually has and has taken her all the way to Kentucky where she is a successful radio personality, but I still think of her as a fellow Spice Girl wannabe.

Melissa Peterson (Smithfield, Utah):
is a person that I know I was destined to be friends with. We met on the BYU-Idaho British Literary tour and spent a whole month touring great sites and forming what I am sure will be a life-long friendship. I think we have seen each other at least once every year since and that is mainly due to the fact that Melissa is the kind of friend who makes you feel like you are important to her and worth seeing.

Audra Karlinsey (Roberts, Idaho):
is a dedicated mother to a growing baby girl and someone I met my very first semester at BYU-Idaho. We lived on the same floor and were in the same ward and were both new freshmen. She lived in a fun apartment of freshmen girls and all those girls took me in as some of my very first friends in Rexburg and made me feel included.

Sheila Rich (Kaaawa, Hawaii): is a creative crafter, a mother to a baby girl, and the wife of a man who loves to fish. I met Sheila through another dear friend and she also stamps with my mother-in-law. I can always count on Sheila to be as crazy and excited about holidays as I am.

Susan Roecker (Simsbury, Connecticut): is my aunt on my mother’s side. I have a memory (which I hope I have right all of a sudden) from when I was seven of visiting my aunt in Connecticut and her making, “Spaghetti Pie.” This recipe quickly became a family favorite of ours and is included in the cookbook my mom made several years ago. I think of that every time I make it.

Alicia Quackenbush (Oceanside, California): is my sister Ashley’s sister-in-law. I have only spent a short amount of time with her, but in that time I observed her not only taking care of her large immediate family, but taking care of her whole extended family. It is obvious that everyone looks up to her and looks to her as a source of strength and love and I was really impressed by that.

Jillana (Young) Ridgeway (Bakersfield, California):
is a mother of two: her son is also a fellow drama nerd friend from high school, and her daughter is a friend since elementary school. I remember Mrs. Ridgeway coming over to plan a school event with my mother one night and the whole family being in the room by the end of the evening laughing and talking with her because she is just so inviting and hilarious.

Logan Hazard (Cleveland Heights, Ohio):
is my cousin on my mother’s side, a dental student, and an adoring husband and father. He keeps his family blog up to date with all the great things they are up to and can’t seem to say enough about how wonderful his wife is, what good food she makes and how great his baby daughter is… I think most women can agree that this is something to be admired in a man. Keep up the good work Logan!

Ashley Moffat (Laie, Hawaii):
is a surfer. She surfs a lot and is really great at it and that alone is cooler than cool. She is also really great at being a wife, mother of two blonde baby girls, crafting, organizing the local mommy/baby Friday beach day, and looking around her to see who needs a meal, a friend, or someone to pitch in and help out.

Molly Tanuvasa (Hauula, Hawaii): is a mother to many and is so in love with her husband. These are the things that stand out to me when I think of Molly. She has four children and is pregnant with the fifth. She loves being pregnant… she actually told me that once. She was the Relief Society President in my ward when I met her and she was truly like a mother to everyone, including me.

Carrie Tracy (Albuquerque, New Mexico):
is someone I have never met in person but feel like I have. Is it nerdy to say that we became friends through blogging? Too bad, because that’s the truth. She is a friend of a dear friend and I am so glad we met. She inspires me because she’s the mother of two young boys, and she is young like me, and she recognizes the frustrations of motherhood but still likes to have a delicious dinner on the table and have her and the boys looking good when her husband gets home every day. Way to keep it together Carrie- I hope to be like you someday.

Suzanne Bjork (Madison, Alabama):
is a mother of two and a wife to Barry Bjork who was a counselor in our old ward. Suzanne always reminded me of someone from another time- she is so classy and no-nonsense. Suzanne is also a great singer and obliged me a couple of times when I asked her to sing in church for one function or another.

Alison Flegal (Boiling Springs, South Carolina):
is one of the first friends I ever made as a freshman at BYU-Idaho. She is a lover of her husband Andrew (whom she wrote while he was on a mission in Germany and whom we all knew everything about from her adoring scrapbooks and stories), her two children, Harry Potter, and Edward from Twilight (but this is Edward we are talking about so can you really blame her?).

Danielle Radon (Bakersfield, California):
is a great writer, photographer and long time friend. She is also of the beloved drama nerd variety and was another one of us many girls who spent weekend nights in Jr. High dressing up as the various Spice Girls (she was Ginger, I was Posh) and practicing the songs over and over until we videotaped our “music videos.” Classic.

Ashley Burnham (Kirkland, Washington):
is the mother to one of the luckiest babies I know. Years after meeting her at BYU-Hawaii, she now lives in Washington with her husband and new baby son who is not only the most well dressed infant boy I have ever seen, but the most well documented through milestone updates and excellent photography on her delightful blog.

Stacie Hawley (Las Vegas, Nevada):
is the sister-in-law of one of my childhood best friends. She is a very enthusiastic mother of two and wife of a soon-to-be dentist. Stacie is an optimist and a very dedicated mother. She takes every opportunity to make something fun and celebrate.

Bille (Grandy) Gniewosz (San Francisco, California):
is a close friend of mine who I met in Spanish class at BYU-Hawaii. We survived working at the big old mansion in Laie for a most demanding boss, and we had so much fun doing it (well, when we could work together… which was rare since the boss lady knew we would have fun and would therefore separate us). Bille is crafty, she is a great reader, she is sophisticated and stylish, she is loyal, and she is fun.

Liko Miller (Kaaawa, Hawaii):
is a good find! I say that because I only just met her this year and I feel so lucky to have been introduced to her. She is the kind of friend who will be there for you, who will show up and add a lot to the group, and do her part. She is inspirational in the way she tries hard every day to do more and be better and show love and patience for her family and her friends.

Melissa Crosby (Laie, Hawaii):
is another local friend of mine who seems like someone I have known forever when really it has only been a year or two. A mutual friend of ours knew the both of us a long time ago before we knew each other and told each of us that we should be friends. Melissa is creative and hilarious. She has her hands full with her active toddler just like me and so whenever she finds herself in one of those stressed out and humorous mothering situations I see myself in her more and more.

Allison (Willden) Hansen (Tulsa, Oklahoma):
I remember Allison the most from our teenage years growing up in Bakersfield. Most teenage girls are silly and annoying (I was anyway), but Allison has always been down-to-earth and cool. When I think about Allison I remember the patience she showed me when my mom hired her to tutor me in Algebra. We were close in age and she was so smart and mature that I was able to learn the concepts and not feel inferior or embarrassed.

Lizzie Heiselt (Brooklyn, New York):
is quite honestly living my dream life. After running a marathon, they had a baby boy, moved from Hawaii to New York City and she is the recent graduate in Creative Writing and Journalism from NYU. I really can’t think of a better life and am so glad she is a part of this book since they fed us the best meal of our life while they lived in Hawaii.

Starlyn Wiley (Monterey, California):
is my English major twin. When we were both foraging our way through English classes at BYU-Hawaii, Star and I would sit next to each other every day with our black rimmed matching glasses, brown hair and light complexions and get mistaken for sisters and teased for actually doing our homework.

Jacob Roecker (Fletcher, Oklahoma):
is my cousin. He is always, always, always doing some big project at school, in his community, with family history, with computers, and in our extended family. He’s tough enough to be in the military, but mostly he is just a nice guy who cares deeply for his immediate and extended family.

Julie (Rozier) Frederiksen (Aurora, Colorado):
is also my cousin. We are the closest in age on the Hawkins side and when we were little we were called “the tummy twins” due to our large, protruding bellies. Since she has been married for a respectable amount of time, I keep hoping that she is secretly pregnant right now and is just not saying or showing photos so that we can all be surprised and be tummy twins once more! ☺

Echo Allred (Hauula, Hawaii):
is a very dedicated family woman. She has one little daughter, another baby on the way, and hopes for twins, hopes for six kids, and hopes to homeschool them all! She loves to craft and sew and is so good at it she sells headbands and the like for an actual profit. She is a good example of a hip, modern-day homemaker.

Betty Hawkins (Bakersfield, California):
is my mama! She is a true wonder woman who puts hours and hours above and beyond into her fifth grade classroom. She persevered my entire childhood and finished her degree, which taught all her daughters about the importance of education. Aside from her career, she was the ultimate example to me of what a homemaker should be. She sewed a lot of our clothes, cooked a family dinner every single night, actually enjoyed keeping our house sparkling clean, and spent a lot of time reaching beyond our home to help people in need in our church and community.

Brittany (Hawkins) Greene (Las Vegas, Nevada):
is the second out of us four girls. She is the one who redecorates my parent’s house, keeps track of three curious little boys, and teaches a preschool in her home twice a week. She is also the one I call with cooking questions, baby questions, and to quote lines from our favorite TV shows and movies.

Mindy Taylor (Midland, Michigan):
is the wife of another one of Thomas’ best friends from the growing up years. She is smart, she is compassionate, and she is a lover of her son and husband. She is adjusting to the cold Michigan climate and impresses me with stories of shoveling heavy snow off her driveway on frigid winter days when her almost-doctor husband is away working.

Becca (Davis) Jones (Pocatello, Idaho):
is the reason I look back on my time in Rexburg with a wistful sigh of contentment. She and I were instant soul mates and her family was my home away from home. We spent many a weekend in Idaho Falls eating her parent’s food and doing our laundry and on the week days she showed me how to be a good student, how to see humor in everything, and introduced me to some seriously cool music.

Jaime Prigmore (San Diego, California):
is a very endearing person. I say this because she is not afraid to not only share her shortcomings with anyone, but see humor in them too. I admire this about her because it makes everyone feel at ease and like they know her really well (even though she claims to be anti-social sometimes). She is a lover of animals, Disneyland, her husband and son, and Hawaii. She is also the person who got me my job at NSMH and I don’t hold it against her… haha. ☺

Megan (Olson) Walton (Arlington, Virginia): is my dear cousin-in-law (Thomas’ cousin) who just so happens to also be one of my best friends. She is moving to Buenos Aires, Argentina very soon to pursue an International Career and perhaps also start a family… some people seriously do it all and live the dream! I am grateful for Megan and her example to me in the newsroom, her perseverance in running some marathons, in the affection she shows for her husband, and her religious strength.

Diana Palmer (Boise, Idaho):
is who I affectionately refer to as “my bestie.” I think my friends around Hawaii must be tired of hearing me refer to her in such tones of adoration and reverence. ☺ She is a beautiful person in every way. She is a talented photographer and a true artist, she is compassionate and soothing, she makes people feel interesting and valid, she is an in tuned mother of two girls and romantic, passionate wife to Martin (another “Bestie”), and she is a runner, vegetarian, music lover, M&M and popcorn consumer, and someone I hope to call my best of the best for…forever.

Matti Parker (Hauula, Hawaii):
is a free spirit who has her own way of doing things and her own way of making everyone feel at ease. She can be the life of the party and an understanding listening ear all in the same day. She has taught me a lot of on the fly recipes that are not only healthy, but delicious. She can create a fun day without spending a lot of money. She can claim to be feeling fat and/or not be wearing any makeup and still look prettier than anyone in the room.

Jenny Robertson (Kansas City, Missouri):
is my sister-in-law who seems to do it all. I was really hoping she would be a part of this book since I have sampled her cooking on several occasions and never once been disappointed. She homeschools four children and leads several homeschool group activities and clubs. She is easy to talk to and fun to be around. I am always impressed by the things her family is doing and how they all seem to be good friends who are excited about life and learning.

Emily (Warr) Patterson (Athens, Ohio):
is a friend from growing up years in Bakersfield who I always looked up to as someone who was well-known and well-liked, but also did what was right. She was my roommate at BYU-Idaho until she got married and even asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. Since that lovely day she has had two boys, embarked on a career as a dental hygienist, and moved to Ohio where her husband is pursuing more and more education. They are great examples to me in so many ways
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Lorraine Olson (Layton, Utah):
is my grandma-in law and a woman who I would list as a life-line if I were ever on go on the show “Who Wants to be a Millionaire.” She is so knowledgeable about so many subjects, but is also wise and matter-of-fact about her knowledge. She is a fabulous cook, a great reader, a source of spiritual inspiration to her family, and a loving grandmother. We love our visits to Layton because we are always so well taken care of.

Chrissy Roecker (Fletcher, Oklahoma): is my cousin Jacob’s wife. She is a mother of three, she is a maker of barrettes, quilts, and several other crafts. She is a hard worker and a woman who can handle it all. When Jake is away for long periods of time due to military responsibilities, she holds down the fort and takes care of home and family- very impressive indeed.

Ashley (Hawkins) Jones (Orem, Utah):
is my sister who is third in line and closest in age to me. She is sassy, but kind hearted. She was married this year and we are all loving her in this new role since she is trying her hand at so many new things that we have never known her to be interested in before. She is a hard and smart worker and has read more books than anyone I have ever met. She is a close friend to me and a great Aunt to all the grandkids in the family.

Linda Robertson (Laie, Hawaii):
is my very own mother-in-law! She is considered quiet by many, but I know her as a woman who has a lot to say about so many things I want to know more about. She is a great source of knowledge, compassion, help, and support to me. I know I am lucky to live so close to such a trusted babysitter and friend to Ambrose. Several times when I have thanked her for watching Ambrose she has made my heart happy by telling me that, “it was a joy!”

Stephanie (Hawkins) Robertson (Hauula, Hawaii):
is the crazy person who nagged you to be a part of this recipe book. I am grateful for you and the chance to do this book. I am a lover of Thomas, Ambrose, the growing baby inside of me and any future children, creativity in any form, music, the LDS church and the happiness and peace I feel by being a member of said church, my association with all of you, good food and great tried and true recipes, and my family past and present for being loving, true, steadfast, humorous, and fun.

Shauna White (Beaumont, Texas):
is another sister-in-law who impresses me with her ability to keep it all together through several moves, while raising six children, and through her efforts to ease her daughter into a new lifestyle as a person with diabetes. She is creative, fun, and honest. She has good times and bad and keeps a good attitude through it all. She is good at keeping in touch with extended family and making everyone feel like she cares.

04 December 2008

list of the cool kids

(this post is to be read in a sassy tone if you can manage that...haha)

carrie tracy - friend thru a friend from blogging
molly tanuvasa- she was the RS prez i was her counselor
ashley moffat- hawaii friend, beach day organizer
logan hazard- my cousin, the almost-dentist
jill ridgeway- mother of a friend from elem/jr high/high school
alicia quackenbush- my sister's sister-in-law
susan roecker- my aunt
sheila rich- hawaii friend
audra karlinsey- friend from byu-idaho days
melissa peterson- kindred spirit and europe study abroad friend
morgan mecomber- fellow drama nerd friend form growing up years
megan swanson- fellow drama nerd friend from growing up years too
taylor beebe- hawaii friend/co-worker too
meg thomander- hawaii friend (craftiest person ever)
natalie buck- my sister
rachel whetten- friend and wife of one of thomas' best friends

these are the cool people. sorry if you're not on the list.

oh you wanna be on it? ok, you have six more days to get yourself on this most exclusive list... go here to review the guidelines like remembering to type it up in word before and attaching it to your email. typing it up at all before hand helps me out. i dont want this to take over my life, but i want YOU in!

calling them out: these are some people who i love who are most noticeably not on this cool kid list:
my mother and mother-in-law
two of my sisters... ash and britt
maybe some sister-in-laws if they wanna do it
echo, mel c, matti, liko, stef, anna
diana
bille
kristen
can you believe im making this list? sassy.
becca boo, starlyn
erin
emily
lizzie
cousin julie
hmmm... who else? oh yeah, and YOU! (unless you've already submitted... then you're off the hook.)

ok, i'm sure i'm forgetting some names, but you have six more days anyway, so get on it! don't worry, i'll remind you again. i'm like that :)

06 October 2008

ashley in the middle

brittany looking perfect as usual, natalie giving in to the hilarity of the situation, me- the cry baby, and ashley throwing her head back... loving it.

i have one last sister whom i havent highlighted yet (if you have been keeping track that is four girls in our family and no brothers... it was really fun and sometimes really emotional). her name is ashley mango jones. no joke. well, actually it isnt a joke that her middle name is mango, it's just a lie. i started calling her that a long time ago and we dont remember why... but why not? i really like this windy haired picture taken in Prague. she's such a beauty.

ashley is the direct one. she doesnt hold back and she knows and gets what she wants. she is never wrong (and the scary thing is that most of the time this is actually true!) and has read more books than you, your high school english teacher, and avid reader grandmother combined. she is one tough lady and sometimes i wonder, is she really so tough? does she need someone to get all up in her business and hug her a bunch and let her know that she is great and special and sweet?

so, i do it and she ends up bristling, but secretly loving it. i used to say, "I LOOOOVE YOOOOOU MANGO!!!!" and she wouldnt even look up from her book or magazine as she replied in monotone; "right back at ya."

hahahahhaha! this may sound sad to some that dont know ash and i that well, but to those who know... oh you just know. :)

one time at girls camp (i was 13, she was 17) we had to pass around these "feel-good papers". there was one for every girl at camp with their name on the top of the page and everyone had to write something nice about each girl. the idea was that when you got it back you would have a page full of things that people loved or admired about you and you would skip off into your tent for the night and sigh as you hugged it to your chest and collapsed into your sleeping bag...

anyway, i got my feel-good page back and beamed at this and that, written by all the girls in my ward... then my eyes raced over the page... "where was ashleys? where was ashleys? what does she love about me??"

there it was in her all caps handwriting: OVERLY HAPPY AND HUGGY.

ahahahaha! so what did i do?? i went over and sat on her lap in front of all of her friends and squeezed her tight and told her i loved her until we were both laughing and she shoved me off: what are little and big sisters for after all??

ashley is closest to me in age
ashley knows too much about me
ashley is my friend
ashley is my close friend
ashley is the only person who has slept in a small studio apartment with me and thomas- us on our huge california king bed and her on a little mattress on the floor-during two different vacations
ashley sat close with nervous-new-mom-me on my bed, late at night, as i tried to soothe newborn colicky ambrose and reassured me with her presence
ashley was my partner in crime on too many occasions (olive the dog... there i said it)
ashley is the favorite aunt and keeps all the nieces and nephews well dressed and entertained... she may also have a favorite but we wont say who:
ashley is a new wife and impresses me with her new self in this role
ashley is competent
ashley would be one of my life-lines if i went on "millionaire"
ashley is a personal pet favorite of a lot of random people
ashley is there to fill in the space in all our lives
ashley is the survivor of a deadly car wreck
ashley is still mad that i came home from the hospital during her birthday party when she was four
ashley has the lightest ivory skin and the darkest, richest black hair
ashley needs to stop drinking diet soda because aspartame will kill you in so many ways
ashley is a former biology, forensic science, AVID teacher and wrestling assistant coach (she thinks that is just as random as you do and became the team mom essentially)
ashley is a close friend to my husband, which is important to me
ashley is up for anything
ashley is hilarious
ashley is someone to be loyal to


ashley is my sister.

if i could dedicate a song to ashley right now, it would be this (whoever uploaded this song to the website spelled the bands name wrong when it gets to the actual track... not me... i assure you, i'm cooler than that):

MixwitMixwit make a mixtapeMixwit mixtapes

it was on repeat at her wedding and i cant hear it without thinking of the happy couple and i love my sister ashley for sure!

24 September 2008

natalie in the middle

some people like attention (i wouldn't say this as much NOW, but i might have come out of the womb screaming for my parents to cuddle me and watch me do a cool trick or two). some other people just do everything perfectly and efficiently, are always supportive and happy for others, and are caring, insightful, smart, soothing, funny, happy and they are wonderful and humble enough to not want any attention for it. it's just who they are.i hate to embarrass you nat, but i just wanted you to know that you are one of those quiet heroes that everybody is better for knowing and you deserve some credit- big time!

my sister natalie is the oldest in our family of four girls and she takes care of everybody whether she realizes it or not. we all need her and look up to her. she was the first one to have children in the family too so, incidentally, her children are all our children as well. i think everyone feels some sort of claim on her kids because they were our first babies and they are so much fun!
and one other thing I want to say about natalie is that she is so humble because she is totally unaware of how lovely she is. she's always making some joke about herself, but i hope she knows how beautiful she is and how much i hope to be like her inside and out someday. nat, i love you! but i'm not the only one. i thought you should know what your family thinks about you:
Dad and Mom via phone:
Dad: words you would use to describe natalie: dependable, perfect, a pleaser (although he wasnt sure you would be happy to hear that- haha), supportive BIG TIME, fun to be with, a listening ear, his psychotherapist on your morning walks--"We couldn't live without any of our children, but the truth is we couldn't live without Natalie because she is here making our lives possible. She kind of parents us a little bit."
Mom:compassionate, sensitive, efficient, wonderful--"She is just the glue of our family and she reassures everyone. All of you girls are reassuring in different ways for me: Brit is funny, you are always trying to put things in perspective for us, Ashley is honest, and Natalie is that tender reassurance, the soft shoulder. You know what I am impressed with most is that she is a content person... that's a great quality!"
Brittany via email:"Something Nat and I talk about a lot is how weird it is to be responsible and prompt when others are not taking things seriously :). It makes for some frustrating moments, but there is no learning... she can't be unreliable even if she wants to. Nat is without guile and is sympathetic to others more often than she is critical. She can be very sensitive (especially when overweight highschool boys are sitting alone and looking sad or when Shania Twain is on Oprah). She is a great wife and mom. And she is always fun to talk to... sometimes we resort to limiting our phone time at the beginning of a daily conversation, only to enjoy breaking our own self-inflicted limits because we are on a great topic. Love you Nat!"
and now for Ashley via phone:
"I dont want this to sound cheesy, but it's true: the kindest person i know, goes out of her way to make sure everyone is happy and comfortable, sweetest person ever (she inserts again- I know, it sounds like something people just say- but with Natalie it is actually true!), very sincere, certainly the nicest one in the family (to which i scoffed and then agreed - haha), so overly thoughtful too!" and then adds, "Most of my best memories of Natalie are from my first year at BYU-Provo when she and Brody and Zac were living close by. She would pick me up, drive me around, make me dinner, let me stay over and even sleep in her bed when Brody was gone, and just be my mother away from home."

Nat, we are all so grateful for all you do for us- from your friendship, to support, to your kind influence! So, as your favorite time of year rolls around (HALLOWEEN!!), take time to enjoy and know that your family loves you!

17 September 2008

ashley, echo, mel c, and mel p in the middle

BUY HANDMADE!

i am so impressed with some of my highly crafty friends these days. i have even snatched up a few of their items and you should too! there is something brilliant about owning something expertly made by a person you know.

ashley moffat- she taught like ten girls (of varying levels...me being the worst-haha) how to embroider last night. seriously, so paitient and a great teacher.

her etsy site is called: kolohekids
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5726747

(sorry, if i was one of those cool people who could create a link for you to just click on i would... just copy and paste though and maybe when thomas gets home tonight i'll have him show me how for the millionth time!)
here are some of my favorites from ashley's page:



echo allred is always coming up with new craft projects that she would like to wear/have and then she makes them so well they are worth selling. i think that is why others like them so much too. i dont know any girl who would turn down a stylish, comfortable headband that actually stays put in your hair!


her etsy site is called: jaceyecho
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=6134539
here are some of my favorites from echo's page:



melissa crosby took a sewing class a while back and she must have got her money's worth because she has been turning out some great baby slings that are really really cute! i know for a fact that she will custom make one if you dont see a fabric on her page that tickles your fancy.


her etsy is called: happykai
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5885008
here are some of my favorites from melissa c's:



and in alphabetical order- last but certainly not least:
melissa peterson is my dear friend. we traveled europe together in 2004 and she has been inspiring me to be more creative ever since. she recently married someone who shares her passion for creating beautiful things, restoring the old to the new and fabulous, and letting that creativity shine in all they make and do.


her etsy site is called: mariemo
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5058624
here are some of my favorites from mel p's page and my-oh-my that blanket is lovely and looks like it took some serious work!



so buy handmade! everything is so reasonably priced and so one of a kind. you know what is also cool about all of these girls- they are all extremely dedicated to their families- i like that. good job ladies- you have inspired me to make something... saty tuned...

11 September 2008

brittany in the middle

i have been wanting to "highlight" some people i love for a while (what? student of the month doesnt have to end with 6th grade graduation) and i thought i would start with telling you a little bit about a girl who was born on 9/11...how appropriate :)

i got this picture off your blog... so i am assuming it is ok to post ;)

i can't imagine any trip to the mainland without a nice long stay at brittany's house. she is really good at making you feel like you have something interesting to say. whenever i stay at britt's we talk for hours in her family room (with ice cream close by) about everything (usually while watching some TIVOed gem). i think i tell her every thought that pops into my head and she not only listens, but asks me questions that prompt me to blab more about myself and my feelings. i didnt really realize this until now, but she is such a good person to tackle a problem with.

i had her practically on speed dial the first year of ambrose's life and she not only answered all of my questions and gave me really great advice, but she made me feel like i was still doing a really great job as a mom.

when i was in like fourth grade we moved to a new house and brittany had her own room. she was a full fledged teenager back then so her room was HERS. no one was really allowed in, but she always told me that i could come in (i specifically remember her saying that i didnt take up that much space! haha!). i would lay on her bed and tell her all of my problems with friends and boys i liked (in 4th grade?? yup.) and she would say, "OK, here's what ya do..." and i would soak all that information up like a sponge.

so britt, you are not only the most creatively talented one in the family, or the best cook, or the funniest- but you are a great listener and friend to me and i hope you have the best birthday ever!

i love you.